I have a Bachelor of Science in Psychology, with a specialization in Sociology and Human Development. Sixteen years of social work experience. My own honorary LIFE PhD in the traumas I’ve faced. Therapists, podcasts, books, articles - nothing I consumed helped me return to me. Until I rediscovered attachment science, began to get curious about human need, navigate my nervous system, and engage in inner child work. Learning about our attachment style is a powerful lens. It teaches us why we view ourselves the way we do, what draws us to others, shapes our choices, and ultimately, what we believe we deserve in this life. But knowing I had an insecure attachment was just the beginning. I became aware I needed to look at loving myself better in a more holistic way.

The Four Pillars of my Free to Return Method wrap around you like a remembrance blanket. They carry you inward, akin to many self-led shamanic journeys. Pathways to retrieve and reclaim parts of yourself lost or left behind.

Your body has sophisticated patterns that have helped you survive each environment you’ve experienced thus far. And we can be grateful for them! But those same protective reflexes might now be getting in the way of you being your most authentic, most vulnerable self. In turn, keeping you from experiencing the nourishing relationships you want to have. There is a path to addressing this. It is not a journey outward, but a return to self. Let me show you the way.

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In 2023, I broke up with someone I loved very much. To make sure I wouldn’t call him, I started an attachment style support group on Meetup. Imagine my surprise when that group grew to 4,000+ members in just three years. Instead of a ring, he gave me my whole ass vocation. Learning about attachment and cultivating radical self-love have been the most revolutionary acts of my adult life. So much so, I sold everything I had, went on a few magical side-quests, and started a business. Free to Return is about helping people remember – You can live in a more regulated state. You can learn to better hear, and trust, your own divine voice. And you can return more often to the sacred now. Because the present moment is all we really have anyway. It's a way of living that remembers again and again that there is less to DO, only more to ALLOW. I’m finishing a workbook on this soon. I am so grateful to have stepped back into my sovereignty. I want everyone to feel this way too.